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1. Making Your NatashaBride.net Experience
Safe & Successful
Here are the essential
"rules-of-the-road" for safely navigating online relationships.
Watch out for someone who:
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Asks for money or any type of financial assistance, especially if you never met
in person.
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Asks you to assist with personal transactions (depositing funds, shipping
merchandise, etc.).
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Wants to speed up the pace beyond your comfort level.
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Report a sudden personal crisis and pressures you to provide assistance. If
this happens, view the request with healthy skepticism. Put yourself in the
other person's shoes: if you were faced with an emergency, why would you turn
to a person you've only recently met online for assistance rather than seeking
help from family or friends? Although it can be embarrassing to ask for help
from a loved one, most people would find it far worse to have to ask a person
they've only just met for money or other items of value.
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Asks inappropriate questions.
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Tells stories with inconsistencies,some which may sound grandiose.
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Gives vague answers to specific questions.
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Urges you to compromise your principles.
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Constantly blames others for troubles in their life.
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Insists on getting overly close, overly fast.
2. Be Cautious When Sharing Personal
Information
We strongly encourage you to be cautious
when sharing personal information that could reveal your identity. Take a full
advantage of our secure and completely anonimous Guided Communication process,
and resist the urge to provide a personal email or phone number right away, no
matter how strong a connection to your match may feel. Once you've given out
personal information, you cannot take it back! We encourage you to get to know
a match well via our secure Open Communication system before taking the next
step and sharing a telephone number, instant messenger handle or email address.
You also have the option to use NatashaBride's Secure Call service that allows
you and your match to call each other without exchanging phone numbers.
3. Do Your Own Research
As mentioned above, it is important to note
that NatashaBride does not perform background checks on its members because
there is no national database of criminal convictions in Ukraine, so background
checks would provide a false sense of security. It is important to use Caution
and Common Sense with every match.
It is also important to note that our
optional identity verification service, is not a background check. We rely on
the honesty of our members when filing out our NatashaBride relationship
questionnaire to supply us with their occupation, educational background and
additional options. (we check our members only on such data as their date of
birth, marital status, city and the state of residence as it is performed to us
with the copy of their passport). Regardless of the connection you feel with
any of your matches, we encourage you to do your own research before meeting in
person. This can be anything from typing your match's name into a search
engine, contacting your state or local municipalities to obtain public
information, or using a paid service to obtain a full background report. Above
all else, use common sense. Pay attention to the details someone shared and if
you find anything that doesn't seem to add up, follow your intuition and close
the communication.
4. Make Your First Date Safe &
Successful
Meeting in person is very exciting time.
Most of all you just want to have fun and explore the level of chemistry that
you share with your date, but don't high hopes cloud your ability to exercise
reasonable caution.
Do:
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Choose the time and place of your date wisely. Meet in a public place at a
decent hour during which lots of people will be around. Lunch dates work
especially well.
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Limit alcohol consumption or abstain entirely until you know the person better.
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Use your own transportation,wherever possible, drive yourself or take a taxi.
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Tell at least one friend about your plans.
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Carry a fully charge mobile phone with easily accessible emergency numbers.
Don't:
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Leave beverages or personal belongings such as purses, wallets, or jackets with
pockets that may contain items that could reveal personal information about
you, such as a driver's licence, credit cards, or money.
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Incur large expenses on a date without first discussing how to cost will be
divided.
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Go home with someone, even if it feels like everything's going great. You have
not spent enough time with them to assess whether your safely is a risk.
5. Always be Respectful and Kind
Always be respectful and treat your matches
as you would want them to treat you. Not every match is going to be right for
you so closing communication with matches and having matches close
communication with you is a natural and healthy part of our process.
NatashaBride is about bringing two compatible people together who have a solid
foundation from which a long-term relationship would have a high probability of
success. You still need to carefully consider whether this particular person is
one with whom you would like to further a relationship. If you feel the need to
end communication, then be honest, direct and polite. The sooner you address
this determination, the better for both of you.
If a match feels the need to close
communication with you, please respect their wishes.
6. Take Your Time
While online communication can accelerate
one's sense of comfort and intimacy, we can't stress enough how important it is
for you to take your time getting to know your match. We encourage you to use
our anonimous Open Communication system as long as necessary to find out as
much about your match as is reasonably possible.
It is vital to date and get to know each
other in a deep, revealing and meaningful way by sharing a broad base of
experiences together. The more experience you share, the better your chances of
avoiding hidden and sometimes unpleasant surprises. So allow time for a variety
of experiences together, particularly the simple everyday routine.Move slowly,
learn about and pay attention to the reality of your new relationship, as well
as your relationship goals.
7. Report Concerns About a Match to
NatashaBride
NatashaBride works hard to close
individuals who misrepresent who they are on our site, and we take member
complains seriously. If you have
concerns about a particular match on NatashaBride, please do not hesitate to
contact us so that appropriate steps can be taken to keep NatashaBride the
safest and the best place to start a relationship on the web. Email your
concern to: admin@goldfond.net. Never give anyone money or send goods requested
such as laptops, gift cards or other items of value. If a match asks you for
money, a loan or any other merchandise, please report this as a Match concerns
so that NatashaBride can investigate this matter.
If NatashaBride closes an account for
suspect activity, inappropriate behavior of falsified identity, you may be
notified via email to discontinue communicating with the match in question. We
strongly encourage all of our members to review emails received from
NatashaBride to ensure this communication is received promptly.
We hope this guidelines will help to make
your NatashaBride experience a success, and that you will find your soul mate
as so many others before you have done.
Sincerely.
NatashaBride.net Custom Care
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